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When the date or get-together is over, let her know you had a good time and that you hope to do something similar again soon. Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days. If you contact her right away she might feel stifled. However, if you wait too long she might forget who you are or have found another guy she’s interested in. Ask her out to a similar venue.
Make sure you act differently towards her friends than you do to her so they know that she’s special to you. For instance, hang out with her friends as a group. Spending time with with one of her friends alone could send her mixed signals and make her think that you’re interested in her friend. It’s okay if you’ve never heard of her interests or if you don’t like some of them, but don’t put her down if you don’t enjoy them. If you want to be relationship material, you need to make an effort to learn about her interests.
When you decide you do want to have a girlfriend, being aware of these social elements are essential to your success. I was sure to build up what I call “relationship equity” with all my resourceful friends simply by being generous. Maybe I’d need their help later on in life.
You’ve already shared an experience – why be scared of getting in touch again? It’s even worth taking the step of contacting her with a video call to convey that extra level of confidence.
Tell her she has great taste if she’s describing the kind of music or movies she likes. Or, tell her she’s funny and so easy to talk to, so she knows you’re having a good time.
For instance, you could say “I like you a lot, and I’d really like the chance to date you.” If she agrees to be your girlfriend, smile, laugh, or tell her how nervous you were and how relieved you are now. Alternatively, if she turns you down, accept her answer gracefully by thanking her for her honesty. Whether you’ve been casually dating, exchanging flirty messages, or hanging out only as friends, asking a girl to be your girlfriend can be a nerve-wracking experience. But it doesn’t have to be! You can ask her with confidence by using a few strategies.
- Just another day at the park.
- Fortunately, it can be solved by simply reading a few good books on the topic.
- #11 Be ready to commit.
- I mean, you can have Tinder and meet people that way, but it’s usually more fun when you go out and meet people when you least expect it.
- They wouldn’t even humor me.
- Or maybe you’ve found out that you want a relationship more than you want to live the bachelor lifestyle.
Of course, if the situation leads to sex it’s great but don’t push it! If the two of you end up in a relationship you will have more- and better sex than any single guy, so don’t push it with the sex! If she wants to wait encourage her.
Remember, it’s hardly ever about you. Perhaps she has a boyfriend, or perhaps she’s a lesbian. Whatever it is, don’t worry about getting rejected and get on with life. Approach girls and don’t be afraid if they reject you or don’t want to talk to you.
So, don’t be shy in your pursuit to get a girlfriend. Get out there and find your next relationship.
Step 6: How to transition into a relationship.
It’s the icing on the cake. You could maybe even organise the ride before the end of the date. Women like a guy who plans – it bodes well for any relationship moving forward.
Not only can you look after her, but you also actually think ahead. Don’t be scared to talk about sex.